Unforgiving
What is Unforgiving?
Unable to extend yourself the grace you might offer others. The standard for self is uniquely punitive.
When you might feel unforgiving
Unforgiving is a specific form of inner-critic, which itself is a type of self-blame. You might experience this feeling in situations where self-blame is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define unforgiving.
Emotional Hierarchy
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