Regretting
What is Regretting?
Replaying what you wish you'd done. Sometimes useful, often not — depends on what you do with it.
When you might feel regretting
Regretting is a specific form of guilt, which itself is a type of self-blame. You might experience this feeling in situations where self-blame is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define regretting.
Emotional Hierarchy
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Sorrow about something you did. Healthy guilt recognises impact and can motivate...
Wanting to have acted differently. This is the beginning of accountability....
Taking on responsibility for things that aren't actually yours. Often learned in...
Holding yourself to an impossible standard of foresight. Judging past-you with p...
Catastrophising your own impact. The weight of consequence becomes larger than r...
A voice that punishes rather than corrects. Criticism with no constructive floor...