tertiary · Guilt

Regret

Part of the Grief & Loss Wheel

What is Regret?

Wishing you had done something differently. This is often the mind searching for control over what was uncontrollable.

When you might feel regret

Regret is a specific form of self-blame, which itself is a type of guilt. You might experience this feeling in situations where guilt is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define regret.

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