tertiary · Self-Blame

Self-Attacking

Part of the Shame & Guilt Wheel

What is Self-Attacking?

Turning on yourself in moments of failure. The inner critic becomes brutal.

When you might feel self-attacking

Self-Attacking is a specific form of inner-critic, which itself is a type of self-blame. You might experience this feeling in situations where self-blame is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define self-attacking.

Emotional Hierarchy

Self-BlameInner-CriticSelf-Attacking

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