tertiary · Perfectionism

Changing for Everyone

Part of the Shame & Guilt Wheel

What is Changing for Everyone?

Becoming what each person needs rather than staying yourself.

When you might feel changing for everyone

Changing for Everyone is a specific form of people-pleasing, which itself is a type of perfectionism. You might experience this feeling in situations where perfectionism is present, particularly when the circumstances align with the nuances that define changing for everyone.

Emotional Hierarchy

PerfectionismPeople-PleasingChanging for Everyone

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Not starting because not finishing perfectly is too threatening....

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Delaying as a way to avoid the possibility of imperfect output....

Blowing Up Mistakes

A single error becomes evidence of total inadequacy....

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